Tuesday, May 31, 2011

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Self-respect is the fruit of discipline... ~Abraham J. Heschel

A few days ago, I was asked the following question:

"On Guiltless, you promote self-love despite a person's perceived shortcomings. Does that mean I can eat cake all day and never exercise again but still be content with myself?"

Interesting thought. Let me explain why self-love does not equal the end self-care.

The root of the message here is actually self-respect. When we respect our bodies, we take care of ourselves, both physically and mentally. The self-love we promote is an inner thought process leading to true friendship with oneself. If a dear friend said to you, "I didn't exercise today, so I'm not going to eat dinner," how would you reply? I would tell my friend to allow him/herself to take a break physically and to eat in a way that will nourish his/her skin, muscles, bones, and blood. I would say, "Friend, you are being way too hard on your beautiful self."


Too often do we beat ourselves up over decisions we make according to what our bodies tell us. Sometimes, our bodies will tell us that we are tired and we need a break. Or sometimes, we may want a treat or what we once thought of as a "guilty pleasure." It's the response we have to these desires that tests our self-love. Instead of becoming angry with ourselves and setting out to achieve extreme, unrealistic, and often unhealthy goals, we should be guiltless and mindful and honor the needs of our bodies. But this doesn't mean we should eat cake all day and stop exercising. It means we should nourish our bodies with good food and physically exert ourselves in a way that makes us feel good, while also allowing to break when we need it and indulge in moderation without judgment.

Therefore, once you know what self r-e-s-p-e-c-t means to you, it will be easier to let yourself flow in life. That's why I love yoga so much. During the yoga flow, you never know what thoughts may arise or what aches and pains might come up, but you keep going, striving for inner peace. The yoga flow is just like life in this way. We come across thoughts, emotions, and sore spots throughout life which often create obstacles to our objectives, but like the popular saying goes, "If you fall, get up and try, try again."

How will you honor yourself today?

Friday, May 27, 2011

Eat Naked

Eat Naked-Food That is! I recently interviewed Margaret Floyd, author of the new book Eat Naked about her philosophy on food and body image! I think you'll really enjoy reading her responses!

* What is "eating Naked"?

Eating Naked is all about eating clean, whole, unprocessed food. This means eating food without the ‘extras’ that are expanding our waistlines and making us sick: pesticides, toxins, preservatives, all those ingredients you can’t pronounce on the side of the package. When you take out this stuff, you’re left with nutritious, whole, real food, which is exactly what our bodies need to thrive.

* Why should we "eat naked"?

There are so many reasons!

#1 – for your health. You’ll give your body what it needs to heal itself and stay healthy. If you’ve got extra pounds to lose, the best way to do it is to eliminate processed foods from your diet.

#2 – for the environment. Growing food without pesticides and synthetic chemicals means less pollution, and less soil degradation (a real problem with industrial agriculture). Also, often naked foods come without all that fancy packaging, so there’s much less waste.

#3 – for the animals. If you eat animal protein, then it’s ultra important to eat naked so that you’re ensuring the animals lived in conditions in which they can thrive and engage in their natural behaviors, eating food they’re biologically designed to eat, and being treated with respect and humanity for the duration of their life. Not only is this better for them, it’s better for our health and the environment, too.

#4 – for the farmers. The ones who really suffer from use of pesticides and synthetic chemicals in our industrial agriculture are the farm workers who are handling mass volumes of the stuff on a daily basis. Cancer rates are abnormally high among these workers. Organic farming means you can feel good about what you eat.

#5 – and most importantly – because it’s truly delicious.

* What inspired you to start your blog and write your book?

I had a very powerful experience with food when I was in my early 20s. I had a bunch of chronic health issues (low-lying stuff, but still annoying), the most challenging of which was a skin condition I’d had since my early teens. I’d been treated for it by my Dr., but it was getting worse and the prescriptions were just getting higher. I ended up going to a Naturopath – I’d never heard of such a thing before – and she focused entirely on my diet. She took out all processed foods, identified a couple of food sensitivities, and I went home with a whole new way of eating. A month later, that skin condition and all the other little niggly stuff was gone, and it has never recurred.

Fast forward to several years ago when I realized I wanted to study nutrition and help people in the way she helped me. In my work as a nutritional therapist I’ve realized the thing that is the most important and most effective at making change in someone’s health and weight is to take the processed foods out of their diet. When they eat clean, whole, unrefined foods (what I call “naked foods”), they lose the weight, their energy comes back, and their chronic nagging health complaints improve.

This book is my way of sharing the key principles of eating naked in a way that’s accessible, fun, and most importantly, doable. I want folks to realize that the simplest and most sustainable way of looking and feeling great in their bodies is to eat naked.

* What is your top tip for tuning into your body and becoming a more mindful and intuitive eater?

Join the meal. Sit down, turn off the TV/Computer/misc distracting device, and be present for the meal. Smell it, take it in visually, and then really taste it. You can’t tap into your instincts around food unless YOU are there for the meal.

* How do you get rid of guilt about your body and food?

Our bodies are biologically wired to pursue pleasure and avoid pain. Eating is one of the ways that we give ourselves pleasure every day – several times a day. If we’re stressed about what we eat, berating ourselves for poor food choices, and questioning our own instincts around food, we’re not letting our bodies relax into the experience of eating. Then we’re not really tasting the food and we’re totally disconnected from our bodies’ response to the food.

When you can remember that pleasure is one of the key reasons for eating, and that to experience pleasure from food you have to be present to actually enjoy it (no mindless eating the jar of m&m’s while watching TV, that’s not pleasure, that’s habit and distraction), then you can give yourself permission to sit down to eat, to take a few big breaths before you take that first bite, to really savor every mouthful, and to experience the feeling of the food in your body. When you’re eating from this place, you can’t make a poor decision about your food.


Thank you Margaret! Want more? Her book is available on Amazon.com and also check out her website Eat Naked Now

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

National Swimsuit Confidence Week!

It's that time of year again when swim suit season is right around the corner! And sadly enough, many women across the country will miss out on the beautiful weather and beach days because of lack of confidence in the bathing suit. But this Memorial Day weekend, don't let bikini body anxiety overwhlem you. Join Guiltless as we celebrate Lands' End's National Swimsuit Confidence Week from May 23, 2011 - May 27, 2011.
We are beautiful when we feel beauitful, and when we appreciate ourselves, it truly shows! Feeling confident in that swimsuit will surely have you shining in the sun! That's why we LOVE this new campaign which was created in order to encourage women to feel confident and sexy in their own bodies.


Lands' End, an American lifestyle brand that sells clothing and home goods, partnered with Curvy Girl, a community for real women with real bodies, to create the Curvy Girl Guide, a website of 21 writers who collaborate to inspire women across the country by posing and posting photos at Lands' End's Facebook Fan Page. This is a fantastic resource for all of you, and I encourage you to visit their Facebook page and share some of your own confidence boosting words of advice, or post your own fabulous picture!

Being sexy is feeling sexy. So don't let the bikini blues get the best of you! Take this National Swimsuit Confidence Week and turn it into a lifetime of feeling good! After all, practice makes perfect.




Be well, and enjoy your body!








Monday, May 23, 2011

Think Thin

RD Sarah Butler dropped this little bar called Think Thin landed on my desk the other week and asked me what i thought. ThinkThin bar promising "deliciously natural weight management"- a gluten free, high protein bar with 0g of sugar. Turning it over to read the ingredients label on this "Chocolate Covered Strawberries" bar I counted 38 ingredients, 4 different types of soy, malitol (a sugar alcohol that cases gastrointestinal distress for most people) and not a single mention of strawberries. It must be hidden in that "natural flavor" part.....The sample serving size looked anything but satiating

Can you have you cake and eat it too? Yes I may have a blog called Don't White Sugar Coat It, but I truly believe you can enjoy your favorite desserts and indulgences in moderation. It's a lot easier too thoroughly enjoy a bite of something real, delicious, homemade, than to try to find a substitute, that's loaded with refined and processed protein, and supplements. Want "deliciously natural weight management"? Reach for a piece of fruit, and add some more veggies to your day. There's a lot to be said for real food and that satisfaction that can be garnered from that.
I highly doubt this bar will make you thin, not matter how much you think about it. The only way to have sustainable life-long weight loss and maintenance is through an overall healthy diet and exercise, that includes balance, and yes maybe even a cookie or two. And even if by some total miracle it did make you thin, would you be better person? Would you have more friends? Would you save the world?

Why is it that we lust after thinness so much, that we buy into weight loss scams, hoaxes, and snake oils? That we fill our bodies with "weight-loss" junk food, and ban away all healthy fruit, starches, nuts and seeds, because oh they're too high in sugar/carbs/fat?

I don't know the answer, but I'm hoping to open up some eyes.

What is the most ridiculous weight loss claim you have heard lately?

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Let's give them something to talk about...

"The finest thing in the world is knowing how to belong to oneself." -Michel de Montaigne

Throughout my research and observation of eating disorders, I've discovered something more social than scientific. It appears to me that years ago, eating disorders were very hush-hush. They were rarely discussed or analyzed, and more so swept under the rug. I believe keeping this condition, which is the number one killer of all psychiatric conditions, under the radar will escalate the prevalence of the illness. It's my belief that spreading eating disorder awareness directly contributes to the recovery of thousands.

I've been talking a lot lately with women and girls who are suffering from or have previously lived with eating disorders. The number one thing I hear over and over is, "I just want to get better," or in the case of those who have long been on the road to recovery, "I just never want to get back to that place in my life." And the major contributor to accomplishing these desires I've noticed is talking about it. By discussing the feelings and triggers related to an eating disorder, you are able to identify the root cause of the obsessive thoughts and actions surrounding food and weight. Once the initial trigger is realized, you are more able to cope with and understand the condition. And that's why seeking treatment is so important. So if you are unsure whether you have an eating disorder, or if you feel like you may be at risk for one, or if you know you are currently suffering with one, please don't hesitate to reach out and tell someone. Because talking about it is the first step toward fighting it, and you are not alone.


Between women's magazines with headlines like, "HOT BODY FAST," or news stories about mothers giving their young daughters injections of botox, we are up against a serious army of body image sabotagers! And that's why we're here...to join together in an unstoppable force to remind people everywhere that it's not a magazine or plastic surgery that makes us beautiful...it's the respect and love we have for ourselves which radiates from within.

That's why I am so proud of the body image revolution we are pioneering along with some incredible recovery warriors such as Voice In Recovery, Marci Anderson, Rebecca Scritchfield, RD, Nourishing the Soul and We are the Real Deal among many others. In addition to these inspirational body image activists, here are a few resources for those who would like to learn more about treating an eating disorder:


Please share your favorite foundations, organizations and/or blogs that you believe are inspirational and helpful on the road to recovery!

Thanks for reading. You are beautiful!

Monday, May 16, 2011

Growin Up

I've said it before, but I am very lucky to grow up in a home where we were always beautiful. Where my mother wasn't on a diet, where weight wasn't emphasized, where our brains were praised before our pretty faces.

But I think it gets hard to grow up every single year. The world young girls and boys are growing up in now is one loaded with self-esteem landmines, where "perfect" is more important than ever.

I don't pretend to understand the ins-and-outs of parenting, and I completely sympathize that is not an easy task.

But is Sketcher's Shape-Ups for 7 years olds a great idea?

Let's start that food guilt and fat talk really early! And totally ignoring the fact that studies have shown that "Shape-Up"/Toning shoes don't work. oh and let's also ignore the fact that apparently Boys don't need them, Girls only. Absolutely outrageous. (don't worry a petition has already been started to pull this item. You should sign it too)

If you want to vomit, watch this news special on a Pageant-Mother who gives botox injections to her 8-year old daughter. Because dimples are simply unacceptable when you look in the mirror. I almost started bawling when I realized this little girl can never again frown or smile.

We need less Sexy Troll dolls, and more Girls on the Run.

We need less kid's push-up bras and more BodiMojo

It's a scary world out there for pre-teen and teenagers, what can we do to make the world a little bit of a better place for them to grow up in? I'd love to hear your ideas!! also what ridiculous things have you seen marketing to kids lately?

Friday, May 13, 2011